To create a credit-wise teen, don't just hand over a credit card
and wish your
sons and daughters a good time at the mall or on the Internet. Make
sure they
know how to use and do not abuse credit cards.
Do not assume your children understand how credit works. You might
be surprised
how ignorant many teens are about credit cards. According to a
recent survey reported
by ABC News, 28% of teens did not know that credit cards are a form
of borrowing.
Just as bad, 40% did not know that banks charge interest on
loans.
Still, their financial clout is awesome. Our children, ages 12 to
19, spent
$141 billion in 1998. That's an average of $84 per teen per
week.1 More and
more of these transactions go on plastic.
That is why, while they are still under your roof, teach your
teens about credit
and how to use it wisely. Here are some guidelines:
- Explain how credit cards work, starting with the direct
connection
between charging one month and paying the next. Stress that it's
a loan not
free money. Also be sure to explain how interest works and how
that loan can
cost big bucks in compounding interest if debt is left to pile
up. Most of
all, stress that credit bureaus keep track of whether they pay on
time. If
they fall behind, your children could have difficulty getting a
car loan or
mortgage in the future.
- Apply for an extra card under your account when you
believe your
children can handle the responsibility. Using your account allows
you to monitor
usage and prevents surprises, since your children cannot run up
months of
debt without your knowledge.
- Set limits. Spell out the rules regarding specifically
when the
credit card can be used and how much can be charged. Stress that
cash is generally
preferable for routine purchases. The idea is to get them
accustomed to the
use of credit before leaving home.
If your children go to college, they will be assaulted by dozens
of credit
card solicitations. Remember, once they hit age 18, they can
legally apply for
credit on their own. Here are some survival suggestions:
- Encourage them to continue using your card for at least
their first
year away, until they've proven they can handle credit.
- When they are ready to apply for a credit card in their own
name, encourage
them to look for low fees and low rates and not to be tempted by
teaser rates
(low-ball initial rates that jump after a few months). Most of
all, stress
that one credit card is enough. Owning half a dozen (which too
often happens)
is an excellent way to get into serious financial trouble.
Credit cards are valuable, powerful tools that can help your
children get through
financial emergencies, conveniently make purchases and avoid many
of the risks
of carrying cash. Your job is to help them understand how to use
these tools
properly for both your sake and theirs.
1 A Ripe Target for Web Retailers, Teens Keep Heading to the Mall," The New York Times, September 22, 1999.
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