The Company You Keep
Click here to speak with a local agent / registered rep.

When Kids Return Home

Welcome to a new demographic trend: The "Crowded Nest." In millions of families, the children are moving back home again — that is, if they ever left. Plus, there's a good chance one of their grandparents will move in, too, or at least require financial support. If this describes your household, you know that the result can be emotionally and economically exhausting.

Fortunately, you can take steps that will help you meet your responsibilities to all family members without sacrificing your own future financial security... or your sanity.

  1. Set ground rules for home-again children and move-in parents, and put them in writing. This may include charging your children rent and asking your mother-in-law to contribute to household expenses each month. That way everybody knows his and her rights and responsibilities. If necessary, schedule a weekly family meeting to discuss needs and air concerns.
  2. Set a departure date for the kids to leave the nest. Yes, you love them, but lock in a hard deadline for them to have saved up for that first home or simply move into an apartment.
  3. Consider purchasing long-term care insurance for your parents. For more information, click here.
  4. Tap into available community services to help with your parents. Between adult day care, the care van, and home health care visits, there may be a lot of support out there about which you're not yet aware.
  5. Don't forget to take care of yourself. Continue accumulating assets for your own retirement. As you enter your peak earning years, now is the time to put aside as much money as possible... so you don't end up as a burden on your children. More than that, take the time for your personal needs and, if married, for those of your spouse.

Rating: 5.0/5 (2 votes cast)

Consult a Life Insurance Agent
At no charge to you, a New York Life Agent — professionally trained and experienced — can help you analyze your needs and recommend appropriate solutions through insurance and financial products and concepts. Request a no-obligation review with a New York Life Agent.

This material is being provided for informational purposes only. Neither New York Life nor its agents provide legal, tax or accounting advice. Please contact your own advisers for legal, tax and accounting advice.

Sign up for our What's New Email:

To Top
When Kids Return Home

= external link that opens in new window...more

© 2012 New York Life Insurance Company, New York, NY. All rights reserved.  Privacy Policy  Site Help/Disclosures