GOOD AT LIFE

Today families across the U.S. are more diverse than ever. The family unit typical of 1950s’ America – the dad, the mom, the kids, and the family pet – is no longer viewed as the only acceptable norm. Every parent, whether single, gay, or transgender, is deserving of support. 

Below are 5 ways to support nontraditional moms – and everyone – this Mother’s Day.

1.    Talk to your kids about their feelings

Kids at school may feel excluded from a certain holiday. A child raised by two fathers, for example, might feel uncomfortable on Mother’s Day – especially if there’s an event at school like making a card or a gift. The best thing is to be frank and open about how we feel. It’s important for people – parents, teachers, and schoolkids alike – not to assume that every child has a mother and a father.

2.    Respect that not everyone celebrates the same way

Celebration doesn’t have to be uniform. On Mother's Day, you could celebrate an aunt or a grandmother – even a donor. Or, for whatever reason, the day might not be a cause of celebration for you. Consider how LGBTQ+ families celebrate Mother’s Day too. Rather than make assumptions, you can just ask them. Just because most celebrate doesn’t mean everyone does or has to, and vice versa.

3.    Educate schoolkids about stereotypes

It’s important for all kids to feel safe and supported at school. Educating your children about perceived gender norms and stereotypes can help create and sustain a safe and supportive space at school. All kids will feel welcomed and included. Small gestures like reminding friends that Mother's Day is about celebrating your parent, guardian, or supporter – whoever they are – can make a big difference. 

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