Financial Tips For Dealing With Dementia

As Americans age, dementia is becoming more widespread—and expensive. By planning ahead, though, you may be able to help ease the burden.

As our population ages, dementia is becoming more prevalent. An estimated 5.6 million Americans currently have dementia.1 The US Administration for Community Living estimates that more than 80 million Americans will be age 65 and older by 2040.2 Rates of dementia, which is a loss of brain function that affects memory, thinking, language, judgment, and behavior, increase with age, and unless a cure or new treatments are found, costs from dementia could come close to doubling by 2040, as the number of older Americans increases. The disease is not only debilitating; it’s also expensive. The direct costs of caring for those with dementia to American society in in 2020 was an estimated $305 billion.1 Those costs include drugs, medical treatments, and assistance with day-to-day living, and they top or equal the costs of other diseases like heart disease and cancer.

Based on those stats, it’s important that you consider making an estate plan before you or a loved one is affected by the disease.

The following are some important points to help guide you through the process.


Who is it for?



When should I begin?

Dementia affects one’s ability to think clearly and participate meaningfully in decision-making, which makes early legal and estate planning even more important. Strive to get an estate plan in place as soon as possible, while you and your loved one are still of sound mind. If you wait until signs of dementia start showing, the estate plan could be invalid because the person wasn’t of sound mind.


Who should I ask for help?

Since laws vary from state to state, everyone’s situation is unique, and there are several legal documents that need to be prepared, please consult a qualified estate-planning or elder-care attorney.


What steps can I take to prepare?

In general, you can help prepare for basic estate planning in seven easy-to-follow steps:

  1. Create a hard-copy document that includes all the information that someone might need about you in case of an emergency. Also include contact information for your medical, tax, and legal advisors, as well as your financial professional. Make sure that your loved ones know where this information is and that it is easily accessible. If you put it on your computer, make sure a loved one knows the password to access it.
  2. Collect and organize all of your financial information and store it in a secure place. This should include basic information about your income, property, investments, insurance, and savings. As many people today maintain their accounts online, it may be best to create one document with basic information, including account numbers, account management, and customer service contact information. Tell a trusted family member, friend, or professional advisor how this information can be accessed.
  3. Designate a person to handle your financial and legal issues by creating a “power of attorney,” or more specifically a “durable power of attorney for finances.” This legal document names someone to make financial decisions or execute instructions based on existing directives when you or a loved one no longer can. This important step prevents having to have state courts take action and possibly seize control of financial affairs from your family.
  4. Ask your attorney to create advance directives for financial and estate management. This must be created while the person with dementia can still determine what should be done. These directives usually include four basic documents:
    • A health care proxy that empowers someone to make medical decisions.
    • A living will to communicate health care wishes.
    • A will that determines how a person’s assets and property should be distributed upon death, custody of minor children, and funeral and/or burial arrangements.
    • A living trust to determine how assets should be managed during disability, illness, and/or incapacitation.
  5. Ensure that that insurance coverage is in order and that beneficiary designations have been properly filed.
  6. Consider creating a heritage document that passes the intangible wealth you or your loved one has gained over a lifetime. This could be in the form of a letter to loved ones, a collection of photographs or mementos, or simply a document that conveys values or life lessons to heirs.
  7. Finally, make sure that estate and financial plans are shared with pertinent advisors, family, and friends. This will make it easier for those involved, when and if there is an onset of dementia that requires quick decisions.


Is there anything else I need to consider?

As with all long-term planning, it is important that you review estate plans over time. Any changes in situation, such as divorce, relocation, or a death in the family, as well as state laws, can affect the outcome of how estate plans are interpreted and executed.

This article is for informational purposes only. Please consult your medical professional for information on your situation. For information about planning for Alzheimer’s, visit the Legal and Financial Planning for People with Alzheimer’s Disease Fact Sheet page on the website of the National Institute on Aging.

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1Stokes AC, Weiss J, Lundberg DJ, et al. "Estimates of the Association of Dementia With US Mortality Levels Using Linked Survey and Mortality Records.," JAMA Neurol. 2020;77(12):1543–1550. doi:10.1001/jamaneurol.2020.2831

2"Profile of Older Americans” Administration for Community Living, May 2021,

3"The Rising Toll of Alzheimer's Disease," Senate RPC, October 27, 2020,